<< Back to all Blogs
Login or Create your own free blog
Layout:
Home > My life, my choice... I want to travel.
 

My life, my choice... I want to travel.

September 30th, 2006 at 11:51 am

For years, I've been living for someone else. I ended up not knowing what I really want.

I got a lot of concern about my choice in life, and got called an idiot by a friend of mine on what he thought of me taking a gap year after high school, so I thought... Maybe going with the flow is better. My parents told me I'll have more time to travel after I finish my studies, but I was really concern... I mean, what if I don't like my future job? I don't even know what I want to do. What if I don't have time to travel? My only love is to travel, to learn something from the outside and open up a brand new perceptive about life. I don't want to end up like my parents that work and travel to places that they only know. They are immigrant from Vietnam and China, money and good job equal happiness to them, not mine. I want to see something new and travel at a young age, so I thought to myself, not next year, it'll be in three years, after I graduate, I'll get to take a year or two off to do what I have always want to do since I was little kid. At the same time, I was afraid of returning to school and be one of the oldest student in University. I was afraid of people thinking that I was crazy to be taking time off from my study. I turned to you guys for advice and most of you encouraged me to travel, I went to another forum and they encouraged me to travel too, another forum suggested me to study abroad... That I don't feel like doing it.

I have made my final choice for now... I'm going to travel after I finish college and there's no stopping me. Maybe college will change my perception, but for now, I'd decided that it'll be in three years.

Time to save up!!

First stop in three years, LONDON!!

P.S : Challenge money : 1$ for no spend day and 2$ for Homework = 129$

3871$ to go... =)

London 2009

4 Responses to “My life, my choice... I want to travel.”

  1. JanH Says:

    It is admirable that you know at your age what you love and what you want to do (travel.) Setting goals for dreams are just as important as any other goal. Everyone's dreams are different. I really hate when people don't allow people to own their own dreams. My son is in music. He is awesome in Jazz. We encouraged him to pursue his dream. We don't know where it will take him. Some of the kids would talk about how their parents didn't believe in them studying music. That's so sad. (Not patting myself on the back--but just telling what we heard from kids.) March to your own music. Believe in your own dreams and make them happen. Love your parents for who they are even if they are different from you. But when you become an adult, you need to explore your own horizons.

  2. PRICEPLUS Says:

    Christina, follow your dreams where ever they lead. Parents provide the foundation but everyone must eventually leave the nest. Your plan sounds well thought out and there is a great deal to learn about the world through travel. Memories and experiences will fill your memories and your life always!

    Good luck in all your pursuits!Smile

  3. broken arrow Says:



    You know, this line is extremely profound. For years, I've felt the same way with my marriage.

    Now, I have the opposite problem: Not knowing what to do with myself. Big Grin

  4. broken arrow Says:

    Hmm. Doesn't take the quote tag. I'll have to remember that next time.

Leave a Reply

(Note: If you were logged in, we could automatically fill in these fields for you.)
*
Will not be published.
   

* Please spell out the number 6.  [ Why? ]

vB Code: You can use these tags: [b] [i] [u] [url] [email]