My little sister lost my dad's camera that cost 1000$ last March, she almost lost my camera that cost 500$ a few weeks ago and she lost her nintendo DS + her games today.

I didn't care because well... It doesn't belong to me although I was pretty disappointed at my sister for forgetting things again. My brother was furious. He was saying that she is irresponsible. LOL... It's sort of hypocrite of him to say that because he is one himself and he told his friends that she lost things that belong to him. He told me that its to make things easier for his friends to understand and I know very well that it's to make a show that he is a really good brother. Like I said, he is all talk but no action so I was mocking him a little bit.

My brother wanted her to learn the value of money so he told me to make her work to repay back that amount. I was like okay... That what I suggested awhile ago. I gave him the idea to take her savings because that where it hurts the most. I took out the saving box that she has been putting the money in since last year and she has 191$. My sister saw that and she didn't say a thing. I said : ';Well... He's taking the money because you lost something expensive.' I was talking to my sister calmly about why she shouldn't take things for granted and that our parents work hard for the money. Then my mom came along and she said : What the heck are you yelling her for? I said that I didn't yell at her and that I was telling her calmly about the money she lost. My mom wasn't even listening to me and we argue a little bit. She said that I'm hurting her and that's enought. To be honest, our arguments lead to no where because she constantly changes the main subject so I asked her if she knows what I'm talking about. She said : Yes but you don't need to repeat it. I said : No, I'm not going to repeat it, I want you to tell me what I just said to her. She said : .... You were talking about money! I was like yeah but can you tell me precisely what I was telling her? She then said that she doesn't need me to repeat it. I ask her many many times the question and after five minutes I give up. I was like : Okay, whatever! No wonder daddy can't get through you without making himself look crazy.

To be honest, I got the impression that my mom feels like my sister got bullied by us. I can't say much about my brother not bullying my sister but he is pretty aggressive with her. I'm not aggressive with her, when I know that I hurt my sister, I comfort her by telling her the reason that I got mad and that next time, she should be careful and I always propose her something fun to do. My mom comes out of no where and starts yelling at me because she thought I was making her feel bad. It's really hard to get our explanation through her because she jumps to conclusion to fast. I feel like she is spoiling my sister with love and stuff.

I know very well that she is the youngest in the family and surprisely very patient, that's why people love her. She is not like my brother and I, we are not very goody goody like her. She can be the ideal little child although she is lacking things to make her a perfect. One thing that bother me is that she takes many things to granted and I understand that it's because is her age but seriously... She never receives any beatings from our parents like we did before. She never learns discipline like us before and when she doesn't call the person by a respectful name, my mom doesn't call her useless. I guess my mom expects way too much from us and she expects nothing from her because she sees her as an ideal child and the only baby that still haven't grow up yet.

I don't know what will happen to my little sister if I don't bother teaching her things and encouraging her to do things by talking to her. She will grow up into being a spoiled brat who knows nothing about life. She has things easy for her and we have it hard.

One thing I notice is that us three kids are very different from each other when it comes to life lol...